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A Healthy Esteem

Philip Anthony Mitchell

2819 Church • Jan 24, 2022 • 57 min

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Take this message with you through a journey of Scripture, reflection, and prayer.

Summary

In this message on Romans 12:3-8, Pastor Philip Anthony Mitchell addresses the toxic culture of comparison, pride, and self-loathing that plagues many believers today. He explains that a renewed mind produces spiritual maturity and leads to a healthy self-esteem—one that neither exalts self through pride nor crushes self through self-deprecation. Because God has assigned specific gifts and a standard measure of faith to every member, believers are called to humbly and boldly serve one another as interconnected parts of the body of Christ.

Themes

Healthy Self-EsteemPride vs. Self-DeprecationSpiritual Gifts and AnointingMind Renewal and Christian MaturityInterdependence in the Body of Christ

Key Points

1.
The true evidence of a renewed mind is Christian maturity and character, not church longevity or outward performance.
2.
A renewed mind continually introduces believers to better versions of themselves in their roles as spouses, parents, and servants.
3.
Believers often vacillate between self-exaltation (pride) and self-loathing (self-deprecation), using their gifting as the hinge.
4.
Pride is the ugliest of all sins, originating with Lucifer and destroying relationships, marriages, and church unity.
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Self-deprecation is equally harmful because it refuses to embrace the grace, dignity, and righteousness Christ bought on the cross.
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God assigns a standard measure of faith to every believer, ensuring that no individual is self-sufficient or superior to others.
7.
Just as a power drill is useless without its battery, human gifting has no spiritual impact without the Holy Spirit's anointing.
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God intentionally scattered different spiritual gifts among believers to force dependence on one another and eliminate pride.
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Disconnecting yourself from the local body of Christ leads to spiritual decay, as no believer is designed to function in isolation.

Sermon Moments

“Vacillating within 24 hours between 'I'm awesome' and 'Lord, why can't I preach like him?' with gifting as the pendulum hinge.”

“The warning that a day is coming where believers will need to know how to open and dissect the Scriptures for themselves in the middle of the night.”

“Defining a renewed mind: 'A renewed mind keeps introducing you to better versions of you.'”

“The description of pride as the ugliest sin and the grandfather of all sins that began with Lucifer's fall.”

“The DeWalt power drill illustration: a drill has light and sound, but without the battery/anointing, it has no actual power.”

“The body putting lotion on an ashy kneecap to illustrate how different body parts exist to serve one another.”

“The severed hand illustration: a hand cut off and left in the parking lot rots and stinks, picturing isolated believers disconnected from the body.”

“The declaration of healthy self-esteem: 'I am not all of that, but I ain't garbage either.'”

This Week

Limit or take a fast from social media windows that feed comparison and fuel feelings of insecurity or superiority.

Examine your heart for subtle pride after God uses you, taking time to intentionally redirect praise back to Jesus.

Refuse self-loathing by meditating on Psalm 139 and accepting that you are fully known and fully loved by God.

Commit to active involvement in your local church body rather than isolating yourself or remaining on the sidelines.

Value and honor brothers and sisters with unseen or administrative gifts, recognizing their necessity to the church.

Identify the specific gifts God has entrusted to you and look for one practical way to serve someone else this week.

Lead and serve in your assigned calling with gospel zeal, passion, and humility instead of wishy-washy detachment.

Remember This

A healthy esteem avoids both pride and self-deprecation, recognizing that our gifts are assigned by God to humbly serve and build up the unified body of Christ.

A Challenge for You

Use your gift with boldness, with humility, and with a healthy esteem of yourself—not prideful, not self-deprecating—because God saved you not to shelf you, but to use you for the glory of His name.

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